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Ten Years with My New Kidney!

Today it has been ten years since my mum made the ultimate sacrifice and donated one of her kidneys to me, freeing me from nightly dialysis and allowing me to lead a full and (almost) normal life.  It feels like yesterday on some days and a lifetime ago on others.  

I am very delighted to be able to say that my kidney is behaving very well and is consistently working like a little trooper! The doctors did say that mum's kidney was like a 20 year olds and I do believe that's proving to be right!  

I can still remember how Trev, Mum and I felt entering Derriford Hospital early in the morning.  But twelve hours later, one of mum's kidney's had been successfully removed and was transplanted into me and working brilliantly!!

Mum recovered well and was fighting fit again within three months.  It took me longer to be fully recovered than anticipated.  I naively thought I would be up and about in no time!  However, taking immunosuppressant's along with a mountain of other drugs takes it toll on your body.  However, at six months it felt like a switch had been flicked and I felt great!!

My Mum, who saved my life 

This year I have several significant milestones, 10 years with my transplanted kidney, 15 year in my job at Frugi and 20 (yes I said 20!) years with Trev!  I would like to think I'm not that old, but I think this just proves that I am!

It's been a tough year for everyone in 2020 with the COVID-19 outbreak.  For transplantee's it has been particularly difficult as we have had to shield to protect ourselves due to the immunosuppressants which we have to take.  There is however, light at the end of the tunnel with the vaccination now being rolled out.  I'm looking forward to seeing all of my family and friends to celebrate this amazing milestone and celebrating with my mum in style!  

In the last 10 years I have achieved so much with this wonderful kidney, most notably representing Great Britain and Northern Ireland at the World Transplant Games on two occasions, bringing home 10 medals which included three golds! 

The World Transplant Games - Argentina

I have made friends all over the world in the transplant community and they will be friends for life.  I feel honoured to have met them and thankful to those who signed up to the organ donor register and as a result, saved those lives. 

The purposed of me blogging and attending events such as the Transplant Games is simply to raise awareness of organ donation.  There is now an opt out system in the UK, however, it is still vitally important that you share your wishes with your family so that they do not veto your decision.

I just want to finish again by saying Thank You Mum!  

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